Friday, 17 April 2009

DIY Diva : Painting Tip of the Week


A room looks wonderful with a fresh coat of paint. But if you have a "love-hate" relationship with painting, you'll want to read these tips on getting a great finished product. You might even enjoy the project as much as the finished product!


Start Out Right

You'll enjoy the job more if you get everything together at the start. Organise a tool station in the middle of the area you'll be working in. Gather together your paint, brushes, rollers, hammers, screwdrivers, plastic bags, plastic wrap, rags, paint can opener and drop cloths.

Plan a Day for Prep

Don't try to get everything done in one day. Use the day before painting day to gather furniture in the centre of the room, patch cracks and holes, put painter's tape (available from Poor Boys) around doors and windows to prevent leaking (see these tips for stopping leaking through the painter’s tape) and cover wall and ceiling light fixtures (light bulbs removed, of course!) with large plastic bags.

If you can, clear out all the furniture and accessories. Take everything off the walls. If you can't move everything out, place the furniture and lamps in the middle of the room and cover them with a good drop cloth. Be sure that you tape the cloth around the furniture. Then put a second cover of plastic or old sheet over everything.

Remove All Hardware

It may seem easier to paint around door knobs or cabinet hinges, but unless you're a professional, very experienced painter, you're bound to get drips around. So carry around some zip top bags and remove all cabinet knobs and hinges, door knobs, light switch plates and outlet covers, and light fixtures. Place the pieces together in separate bags and clearly mark the contents and location (top left cabinet, bathroom door, etc) you took them from. This is a great time to clean the hardware! Put them back when you're done painting.

Get Yourself Ready

No matter how hard you try, you're bound to get drips (or more) of paint on whatever you're wearing. So take off all jewellery. Reserve some old, but comfortable, clothes for your painting jobs. Slip-on shoes are easy to take off if you need to leave the room. You won't have to worry about tracking drops of paint into other rooms. When you paint the ceiling, put a scarf, shower cap, or old baseball hat over your hair and some plastic goggle over your eyeglasses.

Don't Paint Over Problem Walls

If your walls have holes or cracks, fix them before you start with the paint. Any home centre or paint store has knowledgeable personnel to guide you to the best products for the job. Wide cracks and large holes can be "bridged" with fiberglass tape, polyfiller will fill small holes and cracks, and texturizing products are available to match your existing wall finish.

Every year, new products come on the market to help make painting more enjoyable. You'll want to select the best ones for your job.



Natural or Synthetic Brushes

Paint brushes with natural bristles are meant for oil-based paints. Natural bristles will soak up the water and go limp in water-based paints. The newer synthetic bristles were designed for water-based or latex paints, but can be used for anything. Densely packed bristles that taper to a chisel edge help with painting a straight edge, cutting in or tipping. Split ends or “flags” hold more paint and spread it more evenly and smoothly. Choose the right brush for your job.

Foam Brushes and Rollers

Foam brushes come in many widths, are inexpensive, and are great for small jobs or touch-ups. Foam paint rollers work well, don't spatter the paint, and are easy to use when you want a really smooth wall. Don't try them on rough surfaces, though, as they will not hold up.

Pad Painters

Smooth pad painters offer simple, fast and neat paint application and easy clean ups. Don't apply too much paint to the pad, as it will drip. You'll have to take it apart, clean it, dry it thoroughly, and start over.

Paint Rollers

A paint roller with a plastic core will last longer than one with a cardboard core. Select a roller "nap" (fullness of the covering) according to the texture on your walls. Use a flat, smooth roller for flat, smooth walls and a thicker, more plush roller for rough textured walls.

Water-Based or Latex Paint

New latex paints are formulated to be environmentally-friendly. Drying time is short (usually about 1 hour) and clean ups are easy with water. Apply water-based paints with rollers, pads, or synthetic bristle brushes. Latex paints tend to get a "skin" of paint in the can when they begin to dry out, so keep the can covered as much as possible. Pour paint into another container to work from and close the can.

Oil-Based Paint

Most professional painters prefer oil-based paints, especially for cabinets, furniture, and trim. New formulations do not harm the environment and are not toxic. Because they dry more slowly, oil-based paints allow for better coverage and work well in warm, dry climates where water-based paints would dry too fast. Apply oil-based paints with pads, rollers, or natural bristle brushes. Clean up with paint thinner or other solvent.

Drop Cloths

The best material for a drop cloth is a heavy canvas cloth. It's not as slippery as plastic and covers better than newspaper. Fold the cloth to fit any size room and tape down the corners to prevent paint from oozing over the edge. To prevent scratching, be sure to vacuum hardwood floors before you put the drop cloth down.


Tinted Primer

Most paint jobs work better when you use a primer or base coat. Have the primer or base paint tinted to match your surface paint colour. You may be able to avoid a second coat of finish paint. For ceilings, try paint that is specially formulated for ceilings. Some brands go on light blue and change to white when dry. This makes it easier to see where you've already painted.


Some awesome tips for creating that professional paint job. Now get down to your local hardware supply store, you could save yourself a fortune and who know, you might even surprise yourself.


For more DIY tips, search my blog for "DIY Tip of the Week"

Good Luck!

Thursday, 16 April 2009

A morning from Hell with Kaylin - AGAIN!


From the second she opened her eyes she started crying and whining for other clothes, then she was whining and crying for Milo, then it was whining and crying and trantrum because she had to get dressed. It was a fight to brush hair and then to wash face and brush teeth.

It was a tantrum to get in the car and put her safety belt on. Then she started whining and crying about the fact that Megan had more toys than she did. When we got to school, she cried for me to pick her up instead of walking her into class. When it was time to say goodbye, she threw a tantrum of note, clinged on to me squealing at top volume. I think my ears are still bleeding!

I was in tears all the way from home to school and from school to work. Tears of sadness and frustration that I can't control her or make her happy. The guilt is awful!

Its 8:30 am and I'm exhausted. I can't do this anymore...

Tuesday, 14 April 2009

Claire Jane - 27 Weeks

Update of Claire Jane
(Janie, my older sisters little girl).
She is now 27 weeks old and looks just like her mummy.

I can't wait to meet her!

Kaylin's Psychologist Update

So we had our appointment with the psychologist on Saturday (for Kaylin) and it was very interesting.

Lynne used to be a school teacher and studied further while she was teaching and went on to practise as a Child Psychologist specialising in Play Therapy. She’s a lovely woman who practises from her home just around the corner from us. A very homey environment with dogs barking in the garden (which Kaylin is dead chuffed about). She just wanted to meet the doggies.

Lynne saw Riaan and me for the first hour and we left the girls with Chris and Claire for an hour. She asked us 1001 questions about KK and her behaviours, how we handle them and in turn gave us tons of feedback.

Kaylin’s whining and crying needs to be ignored (she suggested I plug in my iPod when she behaves like this). If her behaviour is ignored and I make sure she understands that I will only listen to her when she stops whining and crying and verbalise what she wants with me. I have to stay strong and ignore it. I practised this on Saturday and Sunday and I got good results. Kaylin got frustrated with me initially.

Lynne said that Kaylin is quite immature for her age. Her communication is poor because her sister always speaks for her and that realistically she behaves like a two year old. We have to start treating her like a “big girl” and giving her various responsibilities to do. For example: brushing her own teeth, making her bed or setting the table at night, tidying up her own toys. Kaylin has always been our “baby” and we’ve been doing everything for her. We need slowly introduce her into these things as everything at once will be a shock for her.

We need to get her off the night nappies and stop her from drinking anything from 6pm onwards and give her at least the chance of being a “big girl” and without the nappies.

The good thing is that Riaan is with me 100% and we are going to work as a team to constantly reinforce these things with Kaylin and not loose sight of time with Megan too. Rewarding her for good behaviour would be a good example for Kaylin to see that she would also get rewarded for good behaviour.

We got told by the psychologist that we doing all the right things with her. That at the moment its friction between Kaylin and I because we are so similar and she knows all my buttons to press. She winds me up. At the moment it’s a game for Kaylin. She knows that if she whines and cries enough that mummy will eventually explode and give in from pure frustration and exhaustion. Lynne mentioned that Kaylin is winning the game and I need to play that same game because with my 30 years experience I have one her, I will eventually win.

The naughty corner must be reinforced with her and she suggested and egg timer to count the time that she needs to spend in her spot. She said that at least then it’s not Riaan or I that is telling her when she can come out – it’s the egg timer’s bell. This has been working well so far. Initially she kicked up against it, but by last night she was getting the picture and at least sitting in the corner for the full 3 minutes. She was trying to “negotiate” the time in the corner though and was saying “Naughty Corner finished now” before the bell had gone off. More work to do there….

Lynne asked for permission to visit KK’s school and observe her there and perhaps give the teachers some pointers on how to handle her. She also wants to see how she interacts with her peers (friends) because we mentioned that everyone babies her because she is so little. This needs to stop because if everyone is treating her like a baby, she’ll act like a baby. We gave her permission to do this and are keen for feedback too.

Lynne also mentioned that we need to monitor her over the next few months for ADHD and Aspersers Syndrome, which is a version of Autism. She said that until we diagnose her, I should not worry and that we’ll treat her behaviour first and see how she goes with that. Her obsessive nature with clothes and shoes and having to have things done a certain way. This however could be just her strong personality and her will to have things HER way or no way.

After our session, Riaan went to fetch the girls and it was their turn. Riaan and I just sat back in observed. Lynne got out a basin full of sand and another basin with various toys and animals. Her first questions was towards Megan and she asked how old she was. Megan replied “I’m 6 and in Grade R”. She then turned her attention towards Kaylin and asked her how old she was. Megan immediately answered “Kaylin’s three!” and Lynne continued her attention towards Kaylin and asked her “Can you show me how much is three?” Kaylin held up her hand and tried to show her three but didn’t get it quite right. Megan laughed and said “No, Kaylin this is three!” and held up three fingers. She looked up at us as if to say…see? Megan does all the talking. She doesn’t have to talk.

Lynne watched the girls at play and communicated with them all the time. She actually got Kaylin to talk quite a bit and she even responded directly to her a few times (even though she is generally shy and mute with total strangers). Lynne mentioned that she was expecting her communicate to be a lot worse but that she was actually talking quite nicely with her. It was interesting the things she picked simply by the toys they chose to play with and how they made them interact with one another. I was amazed to watch it all…

After the session, we had a good chat with Megan about how she needs to let Kaylin do things for herself and talk for herself. That she’s not really helping her sister to learn by her doing everything for her. An example: KK started behaving like a baby yesterday; wanting to be wrapped in a blanket and carried around and Megan turned on her heel and walked away. She came to me and said “Mummy see I’m listening. I’m ignoring her when she wants to pretend to be a baby”. I praised her big time for this. Such different children! Megan thrives on being obedient and a “good girl”.

We have also stopped labelling the girls. The angel and the monster! It’s a very negative thing and certainly NOT fair on either one of the girls.

So in essence, we have lots of homework to do and today I’ve order the book (thanx to Laura) “Taming the Spirited Child: Parenting Challenging Children Without Breaking Their Spirits”. I hope this helps us.

We got back on Thursday and then she is on leave for a week and then the week after that we’re on holiday too. So regular therapy will commence once a week after that.

Will keep everyone posted.

Monday, 13 April 2009

Mandy? Wanna Go?

Price group: R201 to R500 per person
Address: Krugersdorp, GautengTelephone: +27 (0)83 344-1924

Opening hours: Saturdays / Sundays and Public Holidays: 11h00 - 17h00

50 meters of pure adrenaline rush! The bungee jump operates off the Kings Kloof Bridge in Krugersdorp Mogale City. Challenge the limits of the mind and test the edge of fear by leaping off the impressive bridge. NoteMinimum weight of 40 kg, maximum weight of 125 kgJumps Available • Forward Dive • Backward Dives • Waist JumpsBungee Mogale operates in Gauteng, Krugersdorp. The site is a veritable one-stop adventure site. Besides bungee jumping you will find a bridge swing, 320 m foofie slide, adventure circuit, restaurant and bar.

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