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Guys love being surprised with hot, urgent sex that doesn't always involve a long stretch of foreplay beforehand. They also love it when their partner initiates sex for a change as it makes them feel desired.

To keep sex exciting and unpredictable, plan a regular passionate quickie with him - and it doesn't have to be at home. Surprise him at the office or in the car. Take him for a walk in a forest or pop down to the beach without letting him know what's on your mind.

Get yourself excited and ready for sex. 

Think about what you're going to do to him and imagine how it's going to feel for you.  If you know what your arousal triggers are, use these.  Some favourite ones are looking at or reading porn, playing with sex toys, sending dirty emails or sexting telling him what you'd like to do to him or even phone sex.

When you have him right where you want him, make it passionate and urgent. Grab him, feel him up and let him see his favourite bits of you naked. 

Don't bother taking off all your clothes - just enough to allow access. Bite his neck, kiss passionately and deeply, writhe against him. Then just before he enters you, pull away.  

Lock your eyes on his, breathe hungrily, let his eyes run over your naked nipples, thighs and crotch and then slam your bodies together for a wild ride. 

Yeeeeehaaaw!